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Christian Athlete, Stop Complaining

"Do all things without grumbling or disputing" (Philippians 2:14 ESV).

What’s your reaction when things don’t go your way—a bad call, a tough practice, or a loss? Paul’s words are clear: stop grumbling and arguing. Complaining reveals more about our hearts than our circumstances. You can look calm on the outside but be fuming on the inside. But here's the thing: God sees both.

Complaining drains joy, breeds negativity, and fractures teams. The good news is that God has an antidote to combat this mindset. It's a posture of Gratitude, which builds unity and trust. And listen, we get it. It's hard to practice gratitude in the midst of the daily grind of our sport. Our ability to be grateful often ebbs and flows with the circumstances in front of us.

But what if we thought of gratitude like a muscle that gets stronger if we consistently give it attention and push it beyond its level of comfort? Conversely, if we fail to exercise it consistently, what happens? Our ability to be thankful atrophies. It needs to become a habit.

The next time you’re tempted to grumble, pause and thank God for something right where you are. Maybe it’s the chance to play, or a challenge that’s growing you. Gratitude shifts our focus from what’s wrong to what’s right.

Gratitude is not just "the right thing to do," it's also the pathway for you to experience more joy through your athletic experience.

Reflection Questions:

1. When do you find yourself most tempted to complain?
2. What can you thank God for in that very situation?

Prayer to Consider:
Jesus, I need your help replacing my complaints with gratitude. Train my heart to trust You even when things don’t go my way. Strengthen my gratitude muscles. For your glory, my joy, and the good of others. Amen.