Boundaries: A Biblical PerspectiveНамуна

Myth: Love Means Saying Yes to Everything
Truth: Even Jesus Withdrew to Rest and Pray

"But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed." (Luke 5:16)

Many believe that being loving and sacrificial means always saying "yes" and making themselves available to everyone at all times. Yet, even Jesus—who loved perfectly—set boundaries.

He withdrew to rest and pray, even when crowds sought Him. If Jesus needed time to recharge, how much more do we? Setting boundaries allows us to serve and love others from a place of fullness rather than exhaustion. It also stops us from seeking approval of man in saying yes - but honouring where God is specifically calling us. Even if that means saying no.

When we overextend ourselves, we risk serving out of obligation rather than love. This leads to frustration and burnout, which ultimately harms relationships rather than strengthens them. Boundaries are not selfish; they allow us to love others well by ensuring we are spiritually, emotionally, and physically whole.

Reflection Questions:

• Do you feel pressure to always be available to others?
• How can you create space for rest and connection with God?
• In what ways has a lack of boundaries impacted your ability to love well?