The Need for Exhibiting Godly Character: A 3-Day Parenting PlanНамуна

Character Vacation

"Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ." (Philippians 1:27)

It’s easy for moms and dads to come up with reasons for taking a “character vacation.” You may think, for instance, Everyone else cheats on their taxes, so why shouldn’t I? Or, No one will care if I take a few things from the office (or factory) to use at home. But once you start your slide into the pit of rationalization, it’s very difficult to climb back out—and equally tough to keep your children from joining you.

In the first days of the Christian church, a man named Ananias and his wife, Sapphira, thought they could fool God by appearing to be generous. First, they sold a piece of property. Then, Ananias, with his wife’s knowledge, kept some of the money and presented the rest to the apostles, pretending that it was the full amount from the sale. Peter confronted him: “What made you think of doing such a thing? You have not lied to men but to God.” When Sapphira arrived later, also pretending that they had given the full amount, she, too, died at Peter’s feet (Acts 5:1–10).

Our kids are watching our character closely. God is watching, too. He knows when our actions are forthright and when we distort the truth: “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity” (Proverbs 11:3). We must remember—and teach our children—that God’s desire for us is to keep our character intact.

Questions for Today . . .

• Are there times when you take a “character vacation”?
• Are you modeling godly character to your children?

Prayer . . .

Gracious Lord, I too often allow troubles and my own priorities to pull me away from You. Let me cling to You and Your eternal Word, no matter what the circumstances. Build my trust as I stay ever faithful to You. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Parents. Used with permission.)

Bonus Content: Character Vacation

Our family sees who we are behind closed doors and they know when we don't stay consistent with our character. What we often don’t consider is how that indiscretion may impact our spouse and our children. In this video, Morgan and Brenen Beeler explain why it’s so important to always be a person of integrity.