"As Long as We Both Shall Live": A 3-Day Marriage PlanНамуна

Frustrated With Your Spouse?

"Be kind and compassionate to each other, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)

The great tragedies of life can undermine committed love, but so can minor frustrations. These daily irritants, when accumulated over time, may be even more threatening to a marriage than the catastrophic events that crash into our lives. And yes, there are times in every marriage when a husband and wife don’t like each other very much. There may be occasions when anger or disappointment takes the fun out of a relationship temporarily. Emotions are like that. They occasionally flatten out like an automobile tire with a nail in it. Riding on the rim is a pretty bumpy experience for everyone on board.

The next time you’re tempted to trade in your spouse, remember that divorce must never be considered an option for those who are committed to each other for life. Instead, determine to work on your points of friction and to accept the human frailties and faults in your spouse. He or she must accept an equal number of flaws in you as well. A covenant of commitment and acceptance is a powerful secret to lifelong love.

Questions for Today . . .

• What “daily irritant” is most frustrating to you?
• Have you gotten better or worse at handling everyday aggravations?
• How can you reduce frustrations in your marriage?

Prayer . . .

Dear God, You know how little irritations often cause pain in my marriage. As I humbly release these irritations to You, please heal me. Forgive my pride. Anoint me with grace. Grow in me a love that’s stronger than any fault or foible. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Couples. Used with permission.)

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