The wisdom of humility in everyday life

Imagine there was a button you could press - and you would immediately be ten times wiser. Tempting, isn't it? We want to be able to have our say, have the right answers at hand, find solutions and be admired for our wisdom. But what if true wisdom doesn't come across as loud, shiny or impressive as we imagine? What if it is quiet, gentle and full of humility

James writes: “Do any of you consider yourselves wise and prudent? Then let this be evident from his whole life, from his kindness and goodness. These are the marks of true wisdom.” (James 3:13). True wisdom is therefore not demonstrated by knowledge, but by a life characterized by goodness, kindness and mercy.

This divine wisdom is different. It seeks peace, is sincere, willing to give in, allows itself to be told something, has compassion for others, is impartial and free from prejudice. At first glance, it seems inconspicuous and yet it is powerful. Because where such wisdom is given space, healing occurs. Relationships are reconciled, community grows.

In contrast to this is the so-called “earthly wisdom” that James describes. It is characterized by envy, strife, jealousy and hypocrisy. It may seem quick-witted, even clever - but it leaves behind division, unrest and mistrust.

Proverbs 11:2 summarizes it like this: “Pride brings shame; a wise man is humble.” And Paul encourages us: “Let all people experience your goodness and kindness. The Lord is coming soon!” (Philippians 4:5). Humility does not mean making yourself small. It means: I know who I am in God's eyes - and therefore I don't have to exalt myself.

Humility means: I don't have to be the loudest, I don't have to be first. I can let go, let others take the lead and forgive, even if I am right. And this is where true strength lies - and a wisdom that connects heaven and earth.

Next Step: Read through the characteristics of true wisdom. Can you think of a person you can pray for today? Perhaps someone who has impressed you with their kindness or sincerity - or someone who seems to be characterized by envy, conflict or prejudice. If you can't think of anyone off the top of your head, ask God to show you someone. Then take a moment of silence and say a short prayer.