I Feel Abandonedનમૂનો

Being abandoned and our reaction to it

Feeling abandoned is very common in our society today. Despite all the technology and scientific progress, many people deny the existence of God, which leads to feelings of loneliness, anger, and abandonment. If I am not created by God with a purpose, then my existence is simply the random outcome of a clash of molecules. This results in a sense of floating in a purposeless universe, feeling abandoned with no sense of belonging, and being needed by no one.

One of our greatest fears is losing deeply cherished relationships. Whether through abandonment, rejection, death, or divorce, we dread losing those we care about. Deeply painful experiences such as these can seriously undermine our sense of self-worth.

In our daily lives, we encounter various forms of abandonment. More and more people see their spouse walk out on them, their soulmate find another partner, friends “move on,” or they face the loss of parents. Many fathers refuse to take responsibility for their children, and it is becoming increasingly common for mothers to do the same, leaving their children in orphanages or in the care of others. We may also experience rejection when we are not selected for a sports team, overlooked for a promotion, or passed over for a company representative position.

The result is often excruciating emotional pain and confusion—feelings of abandonment, rejection, inadequacy, and/or the belief that we have done something wrong. We feel useless and start to believe that we are deserving of poor treatment.

The first thing to remember is that you are not alone in experiencing these feelings. They are more common than you might think. These feelings do not reflect the truth of how God thinks of you.

However, abandonment is not the end. Abandonment doesn't have the final say, and there are ways to deal with the pain. Jesus is the answer to abandonment, and He is eternal.