TRANSFORM: A Practical Guide for Menનમૂનો

Imagine if David never picked up the sling. No Psalms. No kingdom. No lineage to Jesus. That’s what was at stake if one man didn’t rise when it mattered. The ripple effect of refusing to face your giant is massive.

I’ve been a pastor long enough to notice a pattern: nearly every prayer request lands in one of four categories: Spiritual. Relational. Physical. Financial. Miss it in one area, and life limps. Neglect all four? You don’t just get stuck—you sink.

Here’s the thing: these aren’t just prayer issues. They’re wisdom issues. Most guys aren’t lacking opportunity. They’re lacking order. God’s Word isn’t missing—it’s unopened. Principles aren’t absent—they’re unpracticed. You don’t need a miracle. You need to apply what God already said.

Proverbs 3:13–16 says wisdom is more valuable than silver, gold, or rubies. Her right hand holds long life. Her left hand? Riches and honor. That’s not just a poetic metaphor—it’s a pattern. A layout for how life works when you stop winging it and start walking in wisdom.

And Jesus modeled it.

Luke 2:52 says He grew in wisdom and stature and favor with God and man. That’s not filler. That’s formation. It’s a four-part blueprint for real growth. So here’s the measure—how do you stack up?

• Health (Stature): How’s your energy, your sleep, your discipline?
• Finances (Riches): Are you honoring God and budgeting like a grown man?
• Spiritual Life (Favor with God): Do you know the Word—or just hope the pastor does?
• Relationships (Favor with People): Are you building trust, or just dodging hard conversations?

If the Son of God didn’t shortcut growth, why are you trying to?

You’ve got a giant in front of you. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away—it just lets it multiply. Let this plan be your sling. Let wisdom be your stone. Let today be the day your giant falls.

OWN IT:
What would it look like in the next season of your life if you got really clear and accountable about progressing in the Big Four areas of your life?

REMEMBER: Growth isn’t a mystery. Focus on the Big Four.