How to Forgive SomeoneNäide

Forgiveness is the process by which a person is released from the consequences of an action against another person or group and is restored to a positive relationship with the offended party.

In other words, it is deciding to let go of the hurt. Often we will hold onto offenses or grudges because we don't know how to let go. We've held onto a memory for so long that we are unsure who we would even be without it. The truth is that replaying the memory never brings healing. It only causes us to harbor more guilt, resentment, and pain.

People often say, "I can't forgive them because they don't deserve it."

I'm sure they probably don't, but this is one of the biggest traps that satan creates to bind people. It is believed that forgiveness should be "as a result" of something instead of "despite it." As a follower of Christ, we are to not only forgive but also to love our enemies. Following Christ is not an easy path, but it is the path of true freedom, healing, and joy.

Don't allow satan to keep you bound another day through the false belief that your forgiveness depends on others.

Let's Pray:

Father, I don't want to be holding onto the lies of Satan any longer. I uproot that lie from my heart and mind in Jesus's name. Amen.