Dating

The fire does not destroy what God has joined together. It forges it. If your marriage is in a hard season right now, this devotional was written for you. Over three days you will learn the difference between a marriage that is failing and a marriage that is being forged, discover the power of praying for your spouse when it costs you something, and find your footing again as a builder of something that matters in eternity.

Your Marriage Is Not Failing. It Is Being Forged.

Many young people assume the Bible only says “don’t” when it comes to sex—without offering real guidance for life’s complex decisions.

But what if that’s not the full story?

In this 7-day devotional, Omolola walks you through a journey of understanding—starting from how your thinking shapes your life, to discovering God’s design, and learning how to live it out daily.

If you’ve ever felt confused, pressured, or unsure about what to believe when it comes to sex, this devotional will help you

Unravelling Sex & the Bible: A 7-Day Reset for Your Thinking

Every serious relationship in the life of a believer must be divinely discerned—because relationships are not neutral; they are formative. This 14-day plan equips you to walk with spiritual sight, not relational blindness. 

You’ll learn that discernment is not suspicion or cynicism, but Spirit-led clarity that sees beyond words, presentation, and pressure. Through Scripture and practical checkpoints, you’ll discover how God protects your destiny through inner witness, wisdom, fruit inspection, and boundaries. You will also learn how discernment matures through use, how to detect deception and disguise.

DISCERNING RELATIONSHIPS

Why do wise women sometimes end up attached to foolish men? Through the story of Abigail and Nabal, this 5-day plan explores attraction, discernment, red flags, emotional patterns, and the hidden cost of wrong relationships. With biblical insight and practical reflection, it helps readers recognize unhealthy dynamics, guard their hearts, and pursue God’s wisdom in relationships. This is not a plan about fear, shame, or blame. It is a call to clarity, healing, and learning to value godly character above charm, pressure, and outward appearance.

When Good Girls Get Bad Boys: A 5-Day Journey Through Discernment, Red Flags, and Godly Relationships by Patrick Omukhango

Seasons of famine test more than our patience, they test what we truly believe about God. In the Book of Ruth, famine is not just a backdrop; it is the environment where faith is refined, obedience is tested, and redemption quietly begins. This 5-day plan is designed for Christian singles navigating seasons of emotional, relational, spiritual, or circumstantial lack. You will learn how famine does not cancel promise, how obedience still matters when resources feel scarce, and how God often uses lack to redirect, refine, and prepare you for restoration.

Faith in Famine

Do you feel like your marriage is lacking strength? Ecclesiastes 4:12 says that "a cord of three strands is not quickly broken." In this 5-day plan, we will dive deep into God's original design for marriage. Discover the biblical context of becoming "one flesh" and how inviting Jesus Christ to be the center of your relationship builds an unbreakable unity. 

A Cord of Three Strands: Foundations of Marriage

Loss can leave you questioning your future, your faith, and your place in God’s plan. Using the story of Ruth, this 5-day plan walks Christian singles through seasons of grief, disappointment, and emotional loss with honesty and hope. Rather than rushing healing, this plan invites you to process pain in God’s presence and discover how redemption unfolds slowly, faithfully, and intentionally. You’ll learn how God rewrites stories that feel broken, restores what was lost, and brings purpose out of pain. If you’re carrying unresolved grief or mourning unmet expectations, this plan will help you heal and trust God again.

When God Rewrites Your Story

Healing is a deliberate journey with God. This 7-day devotional guides you through a biblical pathway to emotional and spiritual restoration from acknowledging hidden wounds to processing pain, forgiving deeply, rebuilding trust, and restoring your heart's tenderness. God doesn't merely cover pain; He heals it at the root, and in doing so, prepares you for what lies ahead. Whether you've struggled with unresolved hurt, difficulty trusting, or fear of opening your heart again, this plan offers a practical, transformative encounter with God's healing presence, leading you toward wholeness, restoration, and readiness to receive healthy love, God's way.

Healing My Heart God’s Way

True intimacy begins long before physical connection. Scripture reveals it grows through honesty, friendship, spiritual depth, and healthy boundaries, a foundation that protects purity and prepares the heart for covenant.
For Christian singles, building non-sexual intimacy is one of the most vital relational skills you can develop. It shapes how you date, how you discern, and how you love.
Through Scripture, reflection, and prayer, this plan equips you to connect meaningfully without compromise, pursuing relationships that are emotionally healthy, spiritually grounded, and Christ-honoring in every season of your journey.