Thola i AppImigomo YobudlelwanoIsampula
“Izahluleki Wina”
Bheka kumaHeberu 12:1 : “Masihlubule konke okusindayo okusenza sibambezeleke.” Leli vesi likhuluma ngokuqondile uhlobo olulodwa lwesisindo—“isono esisikhubekisa kalula.” Kodwa kukhona ezinye izinhlobo zesisindo nemithwalo, okuhlanganisa nezikweletu ezihlobene.
Bonke ubudlelwano obungakusi enjongweni buyakusinda. Njengokuthi, mhlawumbe uthandana nomuntu ongazethembi futhi uhlezi uchitha isikhathi uzama ukuzichaza ngoba umathandana wakho ucabanga ukuthi unenhloso embi. Uma uzama ukusho into eyakhayo ukuze ubasize, bacabanga ukuthi uza kubo ngoba unomona ngabo. Kodwa akunjalo nhlobo. Ingabe konke lokhu kuyakusiza omunye wenu, ngempela?
Ubani oseduze kwakho okwehlisa ijubane?
KumaHebheru, wonke lo mbono ubekwe endaweni yomjaho wezinyawo enkundleni yezemidlalo enkulu, nomugqa wokugcina ekugcineni kwethrekhi. “Masiwugijime ngokukhuthazela umncintiswano uNkulunkulu awubeke phambi kwethu.”
Awuzicabange usemjahweni. UNkulunkulu uthi, “Angifuni noma ubani oza endleleni yenu ukuze anikhubekise, ngoba nginomncintiswano wokuba niwugijime futhi ngifuna niwugijime ngokukhuthazela. Uma ugijima lo mjaho engikubizele wona ukuthi uwugijime, uzowina umklomelo futhi uyoneliseka, ngoba engifuna ukukwenza empilweni yakho kungcono kunanoma yini owake wafisa ukuyenza empilweni yakho. Ngakho ngidinga ukuthi ungethembe. Kodwa kukhona okumele ukwenze—kufanele ukhiphe wonke lomthwalo okuwe!”
Phuma uma ohlala naye enethonya elibi. Yehlisa ikilasi uma uprofesa ekwenza ungabaze ukubaluleka kwakho. Qhubekela phambili uma umngane wakho eqhubeka nokuvusa ukukhuluma nenhlebo. Ungahlali uma uzakwenu ekukhuthaza ukuthi wehlise izinga lakho. Futhi ngicela ungabekezeleli lelo soka noma intombi ekushayayo. Qeda ubudlelwano manje.
Yibuphi ubudlelwano obungahloniphi uNkulunkulu noma obungenalusizo okudingeka ubuqede, ukuze ubudlelwano obunempilo buthathe indawo yabo?
Mayelana naloluHlelo
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