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Ask for Help: You Are Not Invincible

Leadership was never meant to be a solo journey.
Even the strongest leaders need safe places, trusted friends, and moments of vulnerability.
You were not created to carry every burden alone.

The Apostle Paul, one of the most powerful voices of the New Testament, understood this truth deeply. Near the end of his ministry, he found himself imprisoned in Rome—cold, tired, and nearly alone. From that place of need, he wrote to his spiritual son, Timothy:

“When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, and my scrolls, especially the parchments.” (2 Timothy 4:13, NIV)

Paul wasn’t ashamed to express his humanity.
He didn’t hide his physical and emotional needs behind a mask of strength.
He asked for warmth, companionship, and encouragement.
Later in the same chapter, he wrote:

“Do your best to come to me quickly.” (2 Timothy 4:9, NIV)
“Get Mark and bring him with you, because he is helpful to me in my ministry.” (2 Timothy 4:11, NIV)

Even this great apostle—the church planter, theologian, and miracle worker—needed people.
Paul’s honesty teaches us that maturity isn’t measured by independence, but by interdependence.
To ask for help is not to show weakness; it is to model humility.

The same Spirit who empowers you for ministry also surrounds you with people who can lift your arms when they grow weary. Let them.

Reflection:
When your soul feels cold and heavy, do you let others draw near, or do you pretend to be fine on your own?