Being intentional and planning my actions in my relationships does not minimize or detract from the value.
What do I need to do to intentionally invest in the people I love most?
VALUE: What is most important to me in this area? When my values are clear, my decisions are easier.
COST: What is the worst that can happen if I DO / DON’T DO ______? Magnify the cost to minimize the apathy.
PLAN: I will decide what I am going to do BEFORE I have to make the decision. “When faced with_____ I have decided to _____”