Submit in everything.
BUT there are principles to keep in mind.
1) Nobody should ever act against his or her conscience. A person’s conscience is what is developed as they interact with the Word of God and the Holy Spirit convicts you in a certain way. Therefore, no husband has the permission from God to dictate their wife’s conscience, and no wife has to submit to her husband in a way that would cause her to act against her own conscience.
2) A wife is not to submit to her husband when it is a matter of disobedience to the Word of God, and in turn, damaging to her relationship with God.
Don't forget that your submission includes your heart, your words, and your actions. If any one of them is missing, then it is not true submission.