What have been some of your most meaningful kitchen table moments?

Gathering around the table represents value and connection. How have you seen this play out in your life?

Let's see how Jesus used the table to value and connect with others.

Later, Matthew invited Jesus and his disciples to his home as dinner guests, along with many tax collectors and other disreputable sinners. But when the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with such scum?” When Jesus heard this, he said, “Healthy people don’t need a doctor—sick people do.” Then he added, “Now go and learn the meaning of this Scripture: ‘I want you to show mercy, not offer sacrifices.’ For I have come to call not those who think they are righteous, but those who know they are sinners.”

Discuss the following aspects of this passage. What do each tell us about the nature of Jesus?

Jesus wanted to send a strong message.

Jesus was invited by Matthew.

Jesus was willing to be misunderstood.

Pastor Eric shared 5 ways we can show value to others at our tables. Discuss each one as a group, including what specific action steps you can take as a result.

Know the audience at your table. How do you connect with and respond with different people at your table?

Set your expectations at your table. What can you do to encourage more meaningful conversations?

Create new rules at your table. This is more than good manners. How are we going to treat each other?

Carefully choose topics at your table. How might you cultivate common ground?

Who needs to be invited to your table?