How he speaks to us:
Do this. You deserve it. If you will do it, say it, go there, try this - these things are the answer to your desires. If you do this...you’ll be....fill in the blank. (satisfied, content, happy, rich)
Then after you fall into sin.... How could you...you are disgusting, a fraud...if people knew who you really were...you’re supposed to be a Christian...God is disappointed in you.
He uses shame to trap you. Then keep you in prison to that shame.
Before sin the bible says in Genesis 2:25 - Adam and eve were naked and unashamed.